There is an issue where you and the other person talking have different opinions. You say something and the other person opines otherwise. You, while listening to him makes these replies in your head and just waits for him from uttering. The moment he finishes, you just spit out your weaved reply. You, in this process just waited for him to finish speaking without even listening to his point.
Can this be called a conversation?
No exchange of ideas and just arguments. Is it a healthy talk?
In this world there are innumerable issues which have more than one possible answer depending upon the point of view of the speaker. There are further many questions which do not have any consensual answer at all yet they are tried to be answered and answered.
If we keep on replying without listening what the other person is saying, we doesn’t get to know when our conversation turns into a debate and ultimately leading to arguments attacked to the other speaker personally. This is not the right way to converse. It’s a futile process which might end up in disagreement in wrong terms.
So, for a healthy and fruitful conversation one must listen before speaking. Taste your words before spitting them out. In this world of social media, where we have 100s of apps and internet platforms, face to face conversation is still the best way of share ideas.